My brother is dating my ex...... 👩‍❤️‍👨👩‍❤️‍👨

         Before I start my story, it's very necessary that I give a very short biography of my brother so you would all graps a little understanding of the kind of person he is.
        My elder Bro is what you would call a "hard guy". He has always been the most serious one in the family, very focused on his academics, we have never seen the romantic side of him🤢🤢. Any painful imagination I had of him asking a girl out would probably be like :
  "hello beautiful handmaid of the lord, I often sat and pondered if you would be interested in courtship that would definitely lead to our matrimony "
So you get what I mean when I say he's a "hard guy".😪
       Sadly, my childhood friend recently lost her dad who had been ill. Immediately I sent the message on our family group chat of the demise of her dad, my brother was the first to react. He talked about how my friend had been down and devastated during the period of her dad's illness, he even talked about how he had spoken with her the previous day. Okayyyyy😕😕. A lot of questions kept running through my mind. She was my best friend in primary school, we attended different secondary schools and had lost contact with each other a long time ago. She attends the same university as my brother but for God's sake, it's a very large UNIVERSITY!!!.
Well, I was too grieved to connect any dot at that moment although I was a little bit suspicious.
        I was trying to get my friend's contact, so I decided to look through her IG handle to see if there was anything I could find 🤷‍♀️ (I guess some people leave their contact there). I got distracted and I began to scroll through her pictures but then something hit me 😲😲. "happy birthday sugar" from my brother 😳😳, my own "Rv father" brother 😱. I just kept thinking ; "sugar?" so this boy knows what sugar is? So he can call someone sugar and not die?
At that moment  things started becoming clearer, I remembered the "very few" times I'd speak to my brother in school and he just COINCIDENTALLY had to be around my friend, or the times he'll be using my 5 naira airtime to ask me if I'd been in touch with her 😭. This was just too much to bear.
I went to my family's group chat and asked him for her number and within seconds, he sent her number in DIGITS!!!. Why didn't he share her contact? why didn't he take time? he obviously knew her number by heart and typed it immediately🤔🤔. I really felt like a detective at that moment 😏😌  but at the same time, I was heart broken. Many thoughts ran through my head; how would they take their pre-wedding pictures, would they put me in the middle for being a link between them😩? How would I visit them in their family house? How would I explain to their children that their mum was once my best friend 😭. My brother is responsible, what if he maintains the relationship and they end up getting married. How would I live with the fact that my brother married my ex best friend 😩😩.
I immediately started calling my sisters to gist them how our brother was calling a girl SUGAR on Instagram, I gave them the whole gist, they kept laughing because they obviously didn't understand, they don't have an elder brother, so it has never been their fear to have any of their friends marry their brother 😭.
After some thoughts, I called my brother and told him that I found out and I'm happy for him because I'm a good sister. I told him how I connected the dots but he just kept laughing. I asked him one last time, just to confirm ; "is she your girlfriend?" and he said YESSS!!! as he kept laughing and hung up 😭😭...
My heart is still doing me somehow 😩




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